GODS NOT DEAD

GODS NOT DEAD.. Wow ...  I've been trying to start my days earlier... to spend time ... to sort out thoughts.. quiet meditation.. to be able to work on my Faith and Fitness... my creativity.. I've seen this advertisement for this movie... alot... on social media.. in stores.. ads.. I believe God woke me up today... and it was on ....something made me spend time to watch it .. and BE INSPIRED...

Our lives can take a turn at any moment.. any time.. any direction.. we all are going in different directions.. keeping busy .. with our lives, decisions.. and goals...  

Watching this movie... made me think.. what we do, what we say, how we are, and even what we think ... is affecting people everyday... 24/7 in a negative or a POSITIVE WAY...
AFFECT YOUR DAY in a
a POSITIVE WAY...... in EVERY WAY ...

Its just what I think...










Aloha & A Hui Hou..

Sometimes .. now more than ever I wonder what in the world people are thinking when they decide, do... and act in extremely selfish ridiculous ways... 

unfortunately it sometimes happens in your own family...very very sad...  and in order to keep your own sanity ... you need to literally CUT THEM OUT like a terrible bruise on a banana... 

Its just what I think....

A Hui Hou.. 

Well here I am .... not being consistent ...AGAIN.. man... How in the world... am I supposed start a REAL column or blog.. and get REAL readers... !!! Consistency.. 

is soo important through EVERYTHING and no matter what part of life you're going through.. I just have no idea why its soo difficult .. to BEE CONSISTENT.... but like I said.. we all need to "Never Give Up!!" So I'm gonna keep pushin myself.. and I know I can get this done.. 

Ok till next time... Aloha .. & A Hui Hou!!!

I just don't get it.....

I really just don't get it.. we see it everywhere.. in the news.. celebrities.. singers.. actors ... athletes.. kids.. teenagers.. grown people.. adults.. FAMILY.. WHY.. WHY DO THEY CHOSE TO DO DRUGS????? Are these people just not satisfied with their lives???  What exactly are they looking for???  

 I just dont get it!!!

Its always in the news.. actors overdosing.. celebrities.. young singers.. spending their monies on pot.. crack.. endless monies on this stuff.. and they end up wasting all their monies.. making a bad name for themselves.. not dealing with reality.. and dead on the floor in some hotel somewhere.. wasted.. and DEAD!!! One right after the other..  How do these supposedly smart,  intelligent, talented, well to do people .. get addicted and waste their lives?? Are they that unhappy?? unfulfilled?? bored.. people always looking for more... I guess...... even family members.... continuing to chose drugs .. 

Do these people just have no common sense?? They continue to torture their friends family with binges, worry, anxiety, stress and even death... 
I just don't really understand the attraction.. to continue to chose these awful life changing addictions.. even after these intelligent, strong, talented people see that they are destroying themselves, friends and family .. they continue... to give in to these drugs.. after seeing friends and my own brother destroy himself and our family.. I will NEVER ... NEVER be apart of or enable a drug abuser.. 

God truly gave these people a brain.. to use.. and NOT to ABUSE... 

I don't know... 

It's just what I think.... 

Aloha & A Hui Hou!!!

Well another year ... is slowly, for some, coming to a close..  New Years resolutions contemplated, thought through and being made.. Lots of lessons learned, positive and negative situations have come and gone.. Peoples paths cross.. and new friendships and relationships form new bonds, make commitments and some chose to part ways.. We all hope to learn from the negative .. and implement the positive.. 

Each day we are given a new start.. and as the new year begins.. we really can start new.. almost like a clean slate.. but now we have gained more knowledge, wisdom and insight.. that will hopefully direct us for our future ..  I pray everyday for guidance and direction... to make the best choices, be a good role model of a Woman, Wife and Mother.. as in the past ..I have always fell short .. 

I have learned through recent years that if I don't take care of myself.. then I wont be any good for anyone else.. so THIS YEAR 2014... I plan on workin on ME.. "Creating my life from the inside out.." I'm planning on being the BEST I can be.. 

As I know God has given us all a purpose.. 

And I plan on finding mine.. 

"Its just what I think..."

Aloha & A Hui Hou!!! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou!!!

After having a pretty trying summer ... and dealing with people who really cant see the forest for the trees ... literally and don't even make an attempt to correct enabling habits.. I have adopted this very "hit home" statement ...

"Let go of those who bring you down and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you!"  

We must always try to be in a POSITIVE, encouraging environment.. people and circumstances that build up and always look at the bright side of things.. 

ENOUGH said.....


Aloha & A Hui Hou... 

A Catfish...... really.. 

I have a very difficult time... understanding someone, anyone... that could think sooo little of themselves.. and to be sooooo self centered and selfish.... to get caught up in so called "falling in love" with someone ... sight unseen... not actually meeting someone.. LET ALONE SENDING MONEY ... to these people....!!!!   ARE THESE WOMEN ACTUALLLY THAT COMPLETELY DESPERATE!!!  ... I DONT GET IT!!!  

After watching a current Dr. Phil show.. where they had a woman with older children who are married and had families of their own... which therefore ... given this woman precious Grandchildren... it totally made my skin crawl... to see this woman on stupid dating sites, texting boyfriends... TOTALLY IGNORING HER GRANDCHILDREN... and FOCUSING JUST ON HERSELF...

 It was very sad to see and to hear one of her sons.. said "She is acting like a teenager in heat!" Soooooo completely embarrassing and disgraceful... These women don't even deserve Grandchildren... !!!!  There are soooooo many older women out there like this ... that can't even see the forest for the trees... and ALL THEY SEE IS THEMSELVES... !  I dont at all one bit feel sorry, sympathetic.. or feel for these women.. its such a sad state of affairs ... that I cannot be around any of that.. as I have completely removed any and all negativity from my life.. and will continue to surround myself with only POSITIVE PEOPLE, SITUATIONS... AND THOUGHTS... 

As I recommend all of you ... to do the same.. in your lives.. 

It is the best ... advice .. I can offer everyone I meet and know... be THANKFUL.. for all things... and surround yourself with POSITIVE!!!

ALOHA & A HUI HOU!!!