You get what you give out ...

Sometimes it amazes me on how people can treat one another ... even after years of marriage ...  Even though they are angry frustrated and miserable with themselves ... don't admit it and then you're the one that gets the brunt after you react in a negative way ... I've learned through even a short amount of recreating myself that you can learn a positive thing through any and every event ... Training your mind to remember and pushing yourself to be POSITIVE IS KEY...   FIND THE POSITIVE IN EVERYTHING!!! GOD DOESNT MAKE MISTAKES !!! ❤️❤️❤️

Follow Your Heart❤️

I'm not so sure what or how things will end up tomorrow but I know in trusting things will work according to the plan God has for me ...

I used to worry about every single thing ... some horrible family trait ... but I've chosen a new path ... It's a new direction ... positive and filled with energy and most of all FAITH .. A strong deep faith in God ... a great way to begin a new year ... and moving to grow and enjoy God's plan and direction .. I am a true believer in ... intuition, faith ... that real feeling when you know something is right ... that strong "gut " feeling when you REALLY know what to do ... So follow your "heart❤️"... 

Aloha🌴 & A  Hui Hou!!! 

Pursue Your Passion ...

We all should be able to pursue our passion...whatever it might be ... whatever is your dream... Everyone should be encouraged to pursue and live your dreams... 

God has a plan for all of us ... 

Believe in yourself ... pursue your passion ... 

"it's NEVER too late.. "

Its NEVER too late... to begin ... to make a change ... to start a new career ... workout... finish or even begin college.. or certification... Its YOUR choice .. Its YOUR DECISION...

I grew up in a time... where women were not always encouraged to attend college... or pursue anything but getting married and having a family.. getting an "MRS" degree .. Now dont get me wrong .. there is really nothing wrong with that at all... IF thats what you want... I did want that.. but more importantly at the time .. I wanted to GO AWAY to college... Unfortunately, at the time .. instead of encouraging .. this continuing education .. my parents encouraged the easy way out.. mainly because of the lack of funds.. Absolutely not what I would or have done.. but that was then and this is now... 

Now is a different age and time.. Now we all encourage anyone to be self sufficient .. and to take the time to do what it takes .. take the time to improve yourself.. With the new technology and vast opportunities.. .. that are offered these days... the sky is literally the limit... there are so many endless ways to improve yourself... it is truly amazing ..YOU just have to make the DECISION.. RIGHT NOW.. TODAY!!

It truly is NEVER too late.. 


Aloha & A Hui Hou!!!

There is a NEW YEAR upon us!!!

Aloha all!!!

It has been awhile .. since my last post ... but trying to start our New Year off right!!! 

I am beginning this New Year with making some changes.  They say that if something doesnt work... that you have to make changes... and to make changes we NEED TO TAKE ACTION!!!

I started and discovered blogging a few years ago.. and just never took it seriously... we this New Year is going to be different... Thats right ... "Its Just What I Think" but .. like they say we are all entitled to freedom of speech.. and thought.. So... this is why I am exploring blogging ... and getting my thoughts out on paper so to speak... 

Today was a day of reorganizing ... regrouping... cleaning.. setting goals and beginning our journey with a little more defined idea ..  on what.. where and how ... we will do in this new year.... Whether its in our minds, on paper or on a dream/vision board... its good to do this... it helps us understand ourselves ... and others.. So take some time... if its too late today.. in the next frew days... make some goals!!! Make some plans!!!  TAKE SOME ACTION!!!

AlohA & A Hui Hou!
.

Sad

I once knew a woman ... who NEVER...really found a way to enjoy or see the good in anything.... She grew up... like alot of people these days in what we call a "broken" home.. never knew her Father ... and never spent alot of quality time with her own Mother... and was raised by her Grandmother and Grandfather.  She grew up with little self confidence or inner strength.  She was encouraged by her family although they may have not been her "real"family step or half.. but she always found a way not to accept any joy, comfort, peace ... or contentment.
She wondered through life trying to "find" and push people to pay attention but only proved that she showed her jealousy and self pity.  She went through the normal routine of marriage and gave birth to two children.  Never still finding any joy.. always thinking that she deserved better ... nothing was ever good enough... no mater what was done.   She was extremely over protective over one child by keeping her from everything never allowing her to blossom and grow ... never showing support encouragement, never validating her or her talents or even true love for that matter.. the other was pushed as he was to be a "provider".  She found any and every opportunity to push him and give him everything no matter what it was.. He was given lots of opportunities in life.. but couldn't never deal with life's pressures.. and so he resorted to a life of drug addiction... to medicate and escape stress.  This woman enabled her son continually constantly covering for him and constantly giving him tidbits of help thinking that she wasnt part of the problem... but thats exactly what she was .. a major part of the problem with both her children.. She ALWAYS needed attention.. it was pretty much abnormal ... for an adult ..and a parent to been so needy of attention... as never really grew as a person... it was the same childlike behaviors demanding acceptance and attention... even as an adult.  Always feeling sorry for herself...always looking for that "fairytale" life... soo pathetically sad.. as she made her own children suffer from her own inadequacies ... always parenting out of guilt, never being grateful, thankful, appreciative ... always thinking everyone including God, yes God, owed her something.  It was really miserable to watch ... even to the point where she tried to steal the limelight from her one and only Grandchild... She didn't deserve the privilege of experiencing the wonderful gift of a Grandchild as she destroyed any joy, excitement or happiness... of this beautiful experience.. the jealousy, resentment, bitterness, self pity continued to dominate her life... and she let it .. and wallowed in it.. no matter what positivity was shown to her.  It was like a horrible movie to watch... and couldn't shut off.. The self pity finally consumed her.. she completely cut everyone of her family out.. and chose to accept a complete stranger that gave her attention and saw an opportunity to take advantage of her bitterness.. and literally took everything... without batting an eye... only siding with the bitterness, resentment and self pity.  They were both very much alike... it was really horribly sad to see in progress... but it happened... and unfortunately to her demise.. unfortunately she died alone without family, bitter, alone ... filled with resentment and jealousy... thinking only of herself...what a horrible existence  I used to pray for her... and then ending up just being frustrated ... as she was truly blinded by all her negativity.. I just had to give her to God... Her time her on Earth is finished .. she has to square things up with God herself..  just so very sad...

GODS NOT DEAD

GODS NOT DEAD.. Wow ...  I've been trying to start my days earlier... to spend time ... to sort out thoughts.. quiet meditation.. to be able to work on my Faith and Fitness... my creativity.. I've seen this advertisement for this movie... alot... on social media.. in stores.. ads.. I believe God woke me up today... and it was on ....something made me spend time to watch it .. and BE INSPIRED...

Our lives can take a turn at any moment.. any time.. any direction.. we all are going in different directions.. keeping busy .. with our lives, decisions.. and goals...  

Watching this movie... made me think.. what we do, what we say, how we are, and even what we think ... is affecting people everyday... 24/7 in a negative or a POSITIVE WAY...
AFFECT YOUR DAY in a
a POSITIVE WAY...... in EVERY WAY ...

Its just what I think...










Aloha & A Hui Hou..